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Crap... sorry to hear, Randy...
It'll be tough, but you're doing what's best for him.
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Thanks again everyone! Well, it has been a difficult day for the family, but we all do feel better that Dylan no longer suffering. I think he only had a few days, if that, anyway had we let him die on his own. I was not going to let him go through that.
When I took him into the vet this morning I know he was not in any pain or suffering, just very weak from not eating/drinking that last 2-3 days. The rest of the family gave their last prayers, kisses, and goodbyes in the car before I went in for the procedure.
I've had other pets in the past, but have never been present when they put them to rest. I held up pretty darn good, and was able to hold him and look him in the face during his last quick seconds.
Near to where we live in the country, there is a very nice family owned pet cemetary that run a very ethical operation. They have dogs, cats, horses, etc. in the cemetary that rivals many people cemetaries I've seen. Anyway, we are doing a private cremation in which we will get Dylan's ashes back tomorrow in a very nice oak finished box with plaque/picture front that we picked out.
I could not just throw him in a hole in the ground like some do.... take care everyone and thanks again...Randy
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Thanks again everyone! Well, it has been a difficult day for the family, but we all do feel better that Dylan no longer suffering. I think he only had a few days, if that, anyway had we let him die on his own. I was not going to let him go through that.
When I took him into the vet this morning I know he was not in any pain or suffering, just very weak from not eating/drinking that last 2-3 days. The rest of the family gave their last prayers, kisses, and goodbyes in the car before I went in for the procedure.
I've had other pets in the past, but have never been present when they put them to rest. I held up pretty darn good, and was able to hold him and look him in the face during his last quick seconds.
Near to where we live in the country, there is a very nice family owned pet cemetary that run a very ethical operation. They have dogs, cats, horses, etc. in the cemetary that rivals many people cemetaries I've seen. Anyway, we are doing a private cremation in which we will get Dylan's ashes back tomorrow in a very nice oak finished box with plaque/picture front that we picked out.
I could not just throw him in a hole in the ground like some do.... take care everyone and thanks again...Randy I too have had this day, I don't cry for most (human or Dog)they are old, and it's time. I'm not a religious man, but I have to say.. When I put mine to sleep, I saw the "soul" pass from her eyes, I held her thru all, but when the "soul" passed, she was not her anymore but still clinically alive for a while. It was a defining moment in my life and seems as if the only time I cry is reminders of her.
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Sorry Randy,
I always take my dogs in and stay with them during their final time. They have always seemed to understand what is going on and they have always seemed to appreciate me being with them. I have planted all three on my parents land under favorite trees and bushes. I don't feel bad because they have all liked the big yard where they are resting. Also when I go down there I have fond memories of them all.
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I understand Steve. We considered putting him somewhere on our 3 acres,but we figured someday we might move and we didn't want him to stay or possibly get disturbed someday.
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Again, so sorry for your loss. We have three cats, and I gave each one of them a special hug last night. The time we have with our beloved pets is too short. I try to remind myself to appreciate them every day.
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Sorry to hear about your loss Randy. My wife and I had to do the same for a pet that she had for 17 years. I agree with your comment about mixed breeds and shelter dogs making the best pets.
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Sorry for your loss. I certainly empathized with what you’re going through. I’ve loved all my pets as part of the family. I still remember the day our family first pet was euthanized; I was 9 years old, it was the first time I saw my dad cry ...fond memories in a way.
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Hey Randy,
Just checking in to see how you and the family are doing?
Cam
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Thanks man, things are ok. Still sad at times, but we feel a lot better that Dylan won't have to suffer and is in a good place now. I just placed a photo of him by his box on our fireplace mantel...
thanks, Randy
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