I use a $15.00 IR adapter that lets me or others use my universal remote as intuitively as if it were a normal player... as long as it auto-loads. However, if you end up back at the PS3 screen, it can indeed be confusing for non-PS3 people.

Works for me because it is very rare any visitors would actually be using the remote.
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