Tom are you going for a 5.1 or 7.1 setup? For 7.1 you want the side surrounds to the "side" of the listening area, for 5.1 they can be slightly behind to give you the impression of 7.1. Ideally, you want them 2-3 ft above your ears or higher, this may not always be possible...
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