I find Gene's explanation credible. That doesn't mean it's necessarily true, but it seems that Ian, et al, have accepted Gene's explanation and are moving on. That's good enough for me. I sincerely hope they will be able to repair their relationship. Peace to all. Life is too short to bear anger and animosity for any length of time. Wish I'd learned that a lot sooner. frown

Jack

"People generally quarrel because they cannot argue." - G. K. Chesterton