Ron, welcome.
on this page, you should find the answer to all the questions you have about calibrating with Audyssey; don't forget the Audyssey setup guide link near the top of the post.
it looks complicated, but when you've done it once, then you will find it is really simple to do.

come back to us if you're not sure about something.

See: http://www.blu-ray.com/community/gallery.php?member=Gelli
or: Axiom Gallery