You probably don't want the center to be exactly what the mains are set at, you really need to run the auto setup on the receiver, if you have that option, or calibrate everything with an SPL meter first. Then once that is done, I would say play with the manual settings like you did. It is possible the center won't be the same SPL setting when using the meter, say 75dB or whatever you use...

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