You are not alone! About the only thing I do is recalibrate, anymore. And I only recalibrate my system if I move the speakers, not if I add or subtract a pillow to the room or my kids leave toys on the floor. Now that all my speakers are attached to the walls (save for the VP100), that means I pretty much don't recalibrate, either.

Oh, and I set the sub level by ear now. Too much work to drag the meter out. \:o