So I guess I'm researching on my own. Sounds like in pro audio, xlr is more for line input (vocals, instruments, etc. ) So it can be used for powered subs to send the signal to the amp in the sub, but can't be used to send powered signal from amp to passive sub. Sounds like possibly 1/4 phono cable can work, still trying to figure that out.

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