I ended up going with the
"hot link pro" system found
here.
It has an infrared "eye" which can be placed anywhere the remote can see it. I will place it very close to the TV. Then, it comes with 6 flasher/IR repeater, each on its own 7 foot wire. These wires terminate in an optic portion which is stuck to the IR receiver on the components.
I plan to hide my digital cable box behind the TV (no place in my component rack). Since the digital cable displays the channel and information etc. on screen, I won't need to look at the box (especially considering it just displays the time when I'm not keying any info into it.)
I will send the second flasher to a VCR which will be hidden behind a door (again, no room in rack, and it gets very little use).
The third will go to a 400 cd mega changer daisy changed to a 200 disc changer. This, I will hide some where else (TBD). Since it has on screen capabilities, I won't worry about being able to see the front of it.
I'll probably go ahead and fix the remaining two flashers onto my DVD and reciever, just so pointing the remote for macros won't be an issue...
I'll let you know how it work out for me when I get it all set up (circa two weeks, upon moving into the new home).