Yes, I have been closely reading that thread and, let me say I am glad to have a tech savy person like you offering the counter points. I read each of your posts carefully. There are 2 or 3 points that have me leaning towards the Oppo - first and foremost is the upscaling of standard DVD's. I am not sure how much better "better" is - and no good way to compare since you can't see an Oppo anywhere. But it gives me pause. Second, I like the idea of good customer service that they are known for. Third.....and I saw that you have a girlfriend that isn't that big on your system..... buying another gaming system (I have the 360) is a much tougher sale than a plain Blu Ray.
I am hiding my "man card" in advance cuz I know somebody on here will demand revocation.
