Thank for all of the responses. As I stated above, I never had a Sub before so this is all new to me. My room is kinda large, 30' x 16' with 18' high ceilings. Three walls are floor to ceiling windows, the forth wall has a floor to ceiling rock fireplace with my LCD, L center and R speakers on it. It's open to the dinning room and kitchen on either side of the fireplace. Basically the worst acoustical room for a HT.
I have an Onkyo TX 808, VP 150, W22's for L and R, and 4 QS8's (now in clear oak, thanks JC they look great), and the EP 500. I did the calibration once and the levels look way off so I set everything by ear. That's probably the first problem since i don't know what I'm doing. I will do another calibration today and report back.