Oh no. Everyone stay calm!!!
But seriously, welcome to the forums. Aside from the helpful db calibration part, I too didn't like the sound that Audyssey kept coming up with in my particular room environment. I didn't even end up setting it manually as I kept going back to an unchanged signal "Off" as my preference.
Don't be afraid to experiment with the crossover setting a bit. 60 might be perfect for you but half the fun is in tweaking. My M60s play a bit more easily than the 22s into the deeper ranges but in the end, 80 still ended up as my preference for a crossover.
My philosophy is, whatever sounds makes you smile.
