Seeking: Screw all the electronic answers to your volume problems. None of them allows 'loud.'

When I lived in an private apt. building in grad school, I left a note on all my adjacent neighbors' doors to let me know the best times to use my stereo w/o interfering with their serenity.

Of course, I had to try to be home when I knew they weren't, but it was way better (to me) than a volume compromise.

Eventually, they even left ME notes when they were going to be out of town. Then again, I was having sex with each of them, so maybe that was a mitigating factor?


Always call the place you live a house. When you're old, everyone else will call it a home.