So what I'm hearing is AWD ain't worth it. I can live with that. Sounds like Odyssey is the way to go, but my wife has the ultimate say here.

She also says that I dislike SUVs more than her, so any recs on 5-0 years old, 7 passenger ones with decent mileage that would go for less than $20K used?

I am the Doctor, and THIS... is my SPOON!