I think what makes these projects more difficult is the idea of doing them "halfway". If you just decide that you're going to take everything out down to the studs and then build from there, it's much more straightforward, and you'll typically get a more elegant look in the end. It can be more expensive, though.
I love that sink in the kitchen.
I know it's pretty easy to spend other people's money, but did you every consider in-floor radiant heat for the kitchen?
What is Joyce's vision for the bathroom and the kitchen?
Seems like Bob's your uncle, er, best advisor on this deal.
