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Most of you are already aware of this, but for those who aren't, I am the sole caregiver for my 93 year old Mother. She has dementia, and I can't even take a shower without her calling for help.

That is very, very thoughtful of you Jack! Impressive.

As for the picnic, I coudln't go due to sheer distance. (Baltimore, MD is just a tad bit far.)