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...I am at the edge of my envelope in understanding.

I understand completely. The days of just plugging it in, and turning it on are long gone. We'll be glad to provide any help that we can.

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...this forum seems a lot more civil than other forums...

You must've missed the "Surrender" thread. Count your blessings.

Jack

"People generally quarrel because they cannot argue." - G. K. Chesterton