tell her the 22's will need stands anyhow. shot for the 60's and let her choose the colors. i also told my wife that we wouldn't get good sound w/out floor standers. she bit, and we have the 60's. or option b...get the 60's, tell her the "factory" screwed-up, and it costs toooo much to send them back. naturally be sure you have a glass of wine, the dinner table set with candles lit, and the meal all prepared for her.