DVD's having different recording levels is normal, we all have this issue, and we all find ourselves turning the volume up/down depending on the movie we are watching. Even if you find a receiver that puts out 200 watts per channel, your only gaining 3dB's of volume over a receiver that puts out 100 watts, very insignificant.

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