Snip, I know what you think you are trying to accomplish, but it won't work. Once you are married you will learn that despite all of the relationship building and sharing that you did will pale when she realizes that she controls 100% of the money and physical intimacy. This knowledge gene is activated by the consumption of wedding cake.

You may as well begin practicing the only two accepatable responses you can give for the rest of your life following marriage (and they fit any circumstance). They are:
1) "Okay"

2) "You're right, I'm sorry".