Well, OK, now we're getting somewhere. Some value needs to be apportioned to hearing sound and some value to hearing it loud and dynamic. Then the kids, the wife and you have to pay, somehow, for that value.

And, I will add, when they start appreciating it loud and dynamic, the payments have to be divided equally.

House of the Rising Sone
Out in the mid or far field
Dedicated mid-woofers are over-rated