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Jack told me it's not "pride of ownership", but something else.... Jack?

If I remember correctly I said "I know what you mean by 'Pride of ownership.' I tend to express it as 'pleasure of ownership' just to avoid the possibility of others interpreting it as snobbery."

(Man! I love the search function. It makes me look like I actually REMEMBER saying this. )

Jack

"People generally quarrel because they cannot argue." - G. K. Chesterton