There are a few things I am not sure others have covered.
1) Buy all your Axiom items from the Outlet. Though they say that they are 'B stock" most of the people that have gotten their items from there see nothing wrong. The savings you will achieve here will allow you to spend more in your seating. Call Axiom to see if you can get a B stock package deal and please upgrade to the larger axiom sub or a SVS unit. I have an Outlaw Audio sub that is great as well.
2) If you have a Costco near you I know they have some nice theater seating that is about $2K for (i think) three seats. Check that one out. Very nice deal. I have sat in them and they are nice.
3) I would not go with seperates at this time. The 3805 is a very nice system that you will be happy with. Save the $$ there and put more towards your DVD player.
4) Go with the Blue Jeans connectors. very nice.
5) Ray is a crazy man about his remote lust.
