Try and have a friend over when you're doing the sub crawl so you have someone to talk to and can get a second opinion on the bass. Your family is likely to laugh at you unless they are also into audio

M60ti, VP180, QS8, M2ti, EP500, PC-Plus 20-39
M5HP, M40ti, Sierra-1
LFR1100 active, ADA1500-4 and -8