I keep feeling better and better about my decision. I must have told my wife "Ah, I found the speakers we are getting!" Only to tell her something different a day later.
My wife also does not understand what the big deal is.
The more I learn, the more I see I can possible tweek my choice to be a bit better. One reason, is that different variables present themselves as I learn how conditions I had not considered before, affect my choice. I really appreciate her patience. Well I hope she is being patient.