Try this
We use VNC and Dameware to remote in to computers on our internal network. Should work over the internet as well as long as your computers and the software are set up correctly.

I would suggest that you only run the VNC server at the time you need the connection as leaving a remote connection server running could pose a security risk.

Fred

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