I gave up one expensive hobby (golf) for another (HT). I limit my purchases to one item per year and I usually make it my birthday gift to myself. I also save a bit each month for something that I really want. Sometimes the money that I have put aside for an audio purchase ends up getting used for something more necessary but I am thankful that I put it aside. Also, I am not opposed to buying used audio equipment to save money. Congratulations on fatherhood. It and marraige were the best things to ever happen to me!