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have no understanding of how wires and electrons really interact. I suspect that you all have no idea either.
I do. I have a degree in it. I have a background in RF communications which heavily focuses on transmission theory. I have a background in circuit design which focuses quite a bit on how electrons and wires interact. I have a background in EM which covers the way these interactions create fields that interact with the world.
I'm telling you that the level of difference is so trivial as to be irrelevent. But every time I've said that, you've dismissed me, so I'm not going to bother again.