The ultimate solution... Make him a package deal on the M60's & Onkyo together, and tell him he can't have them until all of your new stuff comes in.
Seriously though, it's no contest. Finding a way around the Onkyo problem is indeed a sign from above... you'll never look back if you take the opportunity. On the other hand, imagine how many times you'll wonder "what if" if you don't do the upgrade...