Suttercane, like everyone else on this great forum, you have my sympathy, best wishes, and my hope for a healthier future for you and your wife. I pray you have and can take advantage of your friends and family to sustain yourselves emotionally.

I am also moved and amazed that Amie and Ian are willing to get involved on this level. Yet one more reason for me to recommend Axiom (as if I needed one!).

"What can be asserted without evidence can also be dismissed without evidence." C Hitchens