Thanks everyone for their input, I'm very confused getting feedback from both sides. I just wish you guys could do the talking for me.

I think I'll hit a bar on the way home and have a few Guinness beers and ponder what to do next, arggg. Maybe I'll send it back and get one of the new Denon's with MultEQ from Odyssey.
M80s-VP180-QS8s-EP600-2xEP350 Denon3808 Outlaw7700
(M22-OWM22-VP100)-all in storage