I've got close to $5000 in audio, and a 32" JVC 4:3 tv.

I'll be saving my pennies for a new TV next year. The new DLP xHD3 chip sets seem very promising. 1920x1080 DLP!

As far as size goes, everyone has always told me to get the very largest set you can fit/afford. It only looks huge for a few weeks, and then you're completely used to it.