Anyone ever say something to you like "Your actions speak so loud I can't hear a word you're saying"? From reading this thread, I think that it is your tone that is coming across much more strongly than the careful words you seem to trying to use. Maybe you've just had one too many for clear thought before posting this time. I agree with several of the writers that you are hitting some nerves: sometimes the way you say things is more important than what you say. Usually I don't get involved with your type of person, since your opinions are quite set, and no one can change them. I wish you luck in finding what you want to hear. It may not be here, however.


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