I'm not above quoting Gandhi:
"Keep my word positive. Words become my behaviors. Keep my behaviors positive. Behaviors become my habits. Keep my habits positive. Habits become my values. Keep my values positive. Values become my destiny."
Point being, LOTS of people here have other speakers or other opinions, and they are roundly congratulated and applauded when they tell stories about the joy they experience.
It's a hobby. It's supposed to be fun. Anybody who thinks it's fun to come to somebody else's house and berate them about their choices isn't the sort of person I want to be around.
