If your wife has noticed that you're about to pull the trigger on another 4-figure discretionary purchase, I'd check her handbag for your card---or the bottom of the shredder.
Yeah, Charles, does your wife
have your card?
Ooo, I forgot......you have the same luck with women as I do.
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